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mistyhawk said...
Isn't it funny how those things work out. My husband loves the water and I won't go near it. Well I will take a bath but anything deep makes me sick.
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hawkeyebrad55 said...
And there is a small pocket in central Iowa of snow and it is still snowing like crazy here. The rest of the state I think is fine other than wind. I had a tree van almost smash my car this morning 4 feet away wish it would have i paid little for it and would have got twice what I paid in insurance I like getting new vehicles every year or so.
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mistyhawk said...
Ok this is weird I know. Everyone will pry hate me and think I am typical crazy girl but... OK everyone knows I like to play with my friends blah blah, well I always aske husband for some fun with all of us. He always declines and I figured it was just because its awkard or whatever. Well today he asked me about a girl in particular. So this kinda throws me off because why are my girls not good enough? Mine are cuter for sure but it makes me kinda think he wants to be with her and he thinks if he lets me join then he can put up with having his wife there just to get with her. (See told you I sound like a psycho) Thing is I have absolutely no interest in this girl at all she actually turns me off... Our personalities are not the same she is grumpy and negative and likes to fight. That part could get kinda weird too if you know jeolousy showed up. (She would KILL me I don't know how to fight) So should I just do it or would it be better just to sit out on this and tell him to just get it out of his system and leave me out(this seems weird, but could get me some brownie points) Or is it time to grow up and have a normal life and give up on extras?? OK see now you know I really am crazy like all insecure girls..., But in all of this the question is: Is he just trying to get with her and thinks if he lets me play too its ok?
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mistyhawk said...
Ok this is weird I know. Everyone will pry hate me and think I am typical crazy girl but... OK everyone knows I like to play with my friends blah blah, well I always aske husband for some fun with all of us. He always declines and I figured it was just because its awkard or whatever. Well today he asked me about a girl in particular. So this kinda throws me off because why are my girls not good enough? Mine are cuter for sure but it makes me kinda think he wants to be with her and he thinks if he lets me join then he can put up with having his wife there just to get with her. (See told you I sound like a psycho) Thing is I have absolutely no interest in this girl at all she actually turns me off... Our personalities are not the same she is grumpy and negative and likes to fight. That part could get kinda weird too if you know jeolousy showed up. (She would KILL me I don't know how to fight) So should I just do it or would it be better just to sit out on this and tell him to just get it out of his system and leave me out(this seems weird, but could get me some brownie points) Or is it time to grow up and have a normal life and give up on extras?? OK see now you know I really am crazy like all insecure girls..., But in all of this the question is: Is he just trying to get with her and thinks if he lets me play too its ok?
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mistyhawk said...
Ok this is weird I know. Everyone will pry hate me and think I am typical crazy girl but... OK everyone knows I like to play with my friends blah blah, well I always aske husband for some fun with all of us. He always declines and I figured it was just because its awkard or whatever. Well today he asked me about a girl in particular. So this kinda throws me off because why are my girls not good enough? Mine are cuter for sure but it makes me kinda think he wants to be with her and he thinks if he lets me join then he can put up with having his wife there just to get with her. (See told you I sound like a psycho) Thing is I have absolutely no interest in this girl at all she actually turns me off... Our personalities are not the same she is grumpy and negative and likes to fight. That part could get kinda weird too if you know jeolousy showed up. (She would KILL me I don't know how to fight) So should I just do it or would it be better just to sit out on this and tell him to just get it out of his system and leave me out(this seems weird, but could get me some brownie points) Or is it time to grow up and have a normal life and give up on extras?? OK see now you know I really am crazy like all insecure girls..., But in all of this the question is: Is he just trying to get with her and thinks if he lets me play too its ok?
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mistyhawk said...
Ok this is weird I know. Everyone will pry hate me and think I am typical crazy girl but... OK everyone knows I like to play with my friends blah blah, well I always aske husband for some fun with all of us. He always declines and I figured it was just because its awkard or whatever. Well today he asked me about a girl in particular. So this kinda throws me off because why are my girls not good enough? Mine are cuter for sure but it makes me kinda think he wants to be with her and he thinks if he lets me join then he can put up with having his wife there just to get with her. (See told you I sound like a psycho) Thing is I have absolutely no interest in this girl at all she actually turns me off... Our personalities are not the same she is grumpy and negative and likes to fight. That part could get kinda weird too if you know jeolousy showed up. (She would KILL me I don't know how to fight) So should I just do it or would it be better just to sit out on this and tell him to just get it out of his system and leave me out(this seems weird, but could get me some brownie points) Or is it time to grow up and have a normal life and give up on extras?? OK see now you know I really am crazy like all insecure girls..., But in all of this the question is: Is he just trying to get with her and thinks if he lets me play too its ok?
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Oryhara said...
The most important part of an open relationship is that you BOTH agree on the partners.
If she makes you feel insecure and he does her then no matter how you rationalize it will do damage to your relationship.
It seems like you have given him opportunities to fool around and he said no. If this is the only girl he has ever wanted it should be a red flag.
I've had to turn down extracirricular activities when in relationships because my partner felt insecure or because I knew I liked the other person a little too much.
You have to be honest with him about this.
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Oryhara said...
The most important part of an open relationship is that you BOTH agree on the partners.
If she makes you feel insecure and he does her then no matter how you rationalize it will do damage to your relationship.
It seems like you have given him opportunities to fool around and he said no. If this is the only girl he has ever wanted it should be a red flag.
I've had to turn down extracirricular activities when in relationships because my partner felt insecure or because I knew I liked the other person a little too much.
You have to be honest with him about this.
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